原来，我没有什么特别。 我自认是个想太多的人，也许是因为一些过往的经历与长期一个人的关系而延伸的很强的自我保护个性，也许是因为我怕自己做得不好，也许也是因为我不 够聪明。我会想很多，尽力把事情做得最好，设法不去麻烦别人，尽量不让自己和身边的人失望或受伤。可是，很多时候，自己其实没那么厉害，事情往往也不是自 己想象的那样，甚至，反而让自己或（和）身边的人受伤害。虽然出发点没恶意，但毕竟伤害还是伤害。想要弥补，可是不是每个时候都能让伤口完全愈合。我想， 我是很渺小的。也许，我并没有什么。或许，每个人都在看笑话。 原来，我没有什么特别。
优雅社会，要用什么来衡量？ Singapore’s graciousness is supposedly to be on the up, according to some survey and as usual, survey has its limitations. How does one actually measure the level of graciousness? I wanted to find out more on the survey, but the site is down… Signs of gracious society?? > Singapore moves up in graciousness Improvements … Read more
已经这么老了，但我还是不会说话。 There are 2 kinds of 不会说话: one pertains to the inability of a person to speak up, and the other refers to the ability of a person to perpetually make the wrong comments. I believe that I am diagnosed with the former, though sometimes I may be guilty of the latter as well. 有时候不是我不要说话，只是我遇到人时我脑子变空。That’s … Read more
学会珍惜，懂得感激，生命中出现的人。 Found this in my mailbox… There are times when we will tend to overlook, but do remember to cherish and grateful to those around us, be they family, friends or foes (hopefully they aren’t many), as they a big part of the reason who we are today. 1. 遇到你真的爱的人时… 要努力争取和他相伴一生的机会 …！ 因为当他离去时 …一切都来不及了 ……！ … Read more
当一个人一直说不想念，他，是真的不想念吗？ 越努力地说服自己不想念一样东西时，其实在内心最深处，还是非常想念的。说服，很多时候，只是为了鼓励自己、给自己勇气，告诉自己往前看，不要再 想那些不会回头或不会实现的事情。人，不是每次都能很潇洒的，拿得起放得下何尝容易；不在乎天长地久，只在乎曾经拥有，我想，这其实也只是一种安慰。也 许，我们应该庆幸、珍惜与感激我们曾拥有的，至少，有些回忆还是很美的。 我不想念，真的，能不想念吗？ 我不想念 刘若英 某个城 某条街 某一条小巷 某一个晚上 某阁楼 微微灯光 某个人 默默关上 某心房 某扇窗 跟没有人说晚安 夜 从前从来没这么长 床荒凉的就像没有边疆 失眠是枕头之上无尽的流浪 天永远不亮 我不想念不想念 他模样 我不想念他肩膀 轻拥著我肩膀 我不想念他吻著我脸庞 把永远说成一颗糖 某空港 某车站 某个下一站 某一扇车窗 某风景唤醒惆怅 某南方摇摇晃晃 某海洋 某艘船 谁没妄想有天堂 当人活成了一棵仙人掌 掌心的泪却还是滚烫 每当抚摸那些天真致命伤 恨不能健忘 我不想念不想念那时光 那些快乐和悲伤却总在我身旁 我只愿长夜将尽天快亮 让想念的歌不再唱 让想念的歌不再伤 让想念的歌不要再唱
只要是好吃、看起来很可口的东西，我蛮愿意尝试的。 I like cheesecake, but not that crazy over it. Hmm.. Well, there are many things in life I like, but only few things make me crazy over (not sure if I have found them yet though…). Like most people, I fancy cakes in general, especially sponge cakes and cheesecakes, as long as they are … Read more
新加坡人，你热情吗？ When I am in another country, I am appreciative to those who came forward to help when I was in doubt, even if I did not approach them. Usually, they would be very willing to help us and even went an extra mile, for example, bringing me to the destination when I had only … Read more
人生不是一切都顺利的。有时候，有些事情，会让我们感到疲累，甚至想放弃，特别当事情没有预想中的顺利，或想要的结果遥不可及。家人及朋友的鼓励固然重要，但自己给予自己的推动力也一样重要。 There are times when we feel down and out with the stuff we have to do. Finding the motivation to keep us going, be it real or imaginary, isn’t easy. After all, people tend to be surrounded by negativity, rather than positivity, when things aren’t going well. At times, perhaps instead of being stuck … Read more
就如一般的新加坡人，我是爱吃的，虽然我吃得不多，但只要是美食，还是难以抗拒的。 Having stayed in an area which is known for it’s food for close to 9 years, it’s amazing that I rarely have my meals nearby. The number of times I have actually dined in the restaurants in this area is, perhaps, countable by fingers and toes. One of the “treasures” in the area is … Read more
常言道：要抓住一个人的心，首先要抓住他的胃；那若我要抓住我的心，是否也要抓住我的胃？ Cooking is one of those things that I like to do, though sometimes it’s troublesome to wash the plates, pots and pans. Nonetheless, it’s the satisfaction derived from turning raw food and ingredients into something nice to smell and good to eat that encourages me to continue cooking, whenever I have the opportunity and … Read more